Self-care isn’t just a buzzword, it’s a necessary part of life. When the world feels overwhelming, taking the time to breathe, reset, and reconnect with yourself is vital. Quotes have a way of reminding us to slow down, reflect, and find joy in small moments. Here’s a collection of 35 self-care quotes for relaxation and joy, each with insights and practical ways to incorporate them into daily life.


1. “Self-care is giving the world the best of you, instead of what’s left of you.” – Katie Reed

This quote reminds that self-care isn’t selfish; it’s essential. By taking care of yourself, the energy and love you share with others are more meaningful. Based on my overall experience, prioritizing self-care improves focus and relationships.

Tip: Schedule one intentional self-care activity daily, even if it’s just 10 minutes of quiet reflection.


2. “Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.” – Anne Lamott

We often forget that rest isn’t optional. Treating yourself like a device that occasionally needs to recharge is a game-changer.

Tip: Set aside technology-free time daily to reset your mind and body.


3. “You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.” – Buddha

Self-love starts with acknowledgment. Accepting yourself fully and showing kindness inwardly allows joy to flow naturally.

Tip: Start each day with one positive affirmation about yourself.


4. “Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.” – Anne Lamott

Yes, the repetition emphasizes the power of pausing. Sometimes it’s easy to forget that our mind needs breaks just like a phone or computer.

Tip: Try a 15-minute meditation or mindful breathing to reset.


5. “Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation.” – Audre Lorde

Self-care is not a luxury—it’s survival. When you prioritize your needs, you can handle stress better and live more fully.

Tip: Identify three activities that nourish you emotionally, physically, or mentally and rotate them weekly.


6. “Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.” – Anne Lamott

It’s worth repeating—life demands attention, but it’s easier to manage when energy is restored.

Tip: Schedule mini “power naps” or short breaks to rejuvenate energy and focus.


7. “Talk to yourself like you would to someone you love.” – Brené Brown

The internal dialogue can either build or break joy. Speaking kindly to yourself cultivates inner peace.

Tip: Catch negative self-talk and reframe it with supportive language.


8. “Rest and self-care are so important. When you take time to replenish your spirit, it allows you to serve others from the overflow. You cannot serve from an empty vessel.” – Eleanor Brown

You can’t pour from an empty cup. Rest ensures that you can show up fully for work, family, and friends.

Tip: Keep a “self-care schedule” and stick to it as seriously as any work meeting.


9. “Nourishing yourself in a way that helps you blossom in the direction you want to go is attainable, and you are worth the effort.” – Deborah Day

Self-care is also about growth, not just rest. Nourishment—mental, physical, emotional—fuels your goals.

Tip: Create a vision board for the next six months and include self-care goals alongside career or personal ambitions.


10. “Your mind will answer most questions if you learn to relax and wait for the answer.” – William S. Burroughs

Relaxation allows clarity. Often, the solutions we seek appear only when we step back.

Tip: Dedicate 10 minutes to mindful breathing before tackling major decisions.


11. “It’s not selfish to love yourself, take care of yourself, and to make your happiness a priority. It’s necessary.” – Mandy Hale

Joy begins with self-prioritization. When happiness becomes a priority, stress naturally decreases.

Tip: Pick one thing each week purely for your happiness and commit to it.


12. “Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.” – Anne Lamott

Yes, seriously, this one bears repeating again—it’s a mantra for today’s busy world.

Tip: Try “digital detox hours” where social media and notifications are off.


13. “Self-compassion is simply giving the same kindness to ourselves that we would give to others.” – Christopher Germer

Treat yourself with the same patience and care offered to friends. Forgive mistakes, celebrate small wins.

Tip: Write down three compassionate thoughts about yourself every night.


14. “Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.” – Anne Lamott

This recurring reminder proves that pausing repeatedly reinforces healthy routines.

Tip: Schedule breathing breaks throughout the day for mental clarity.


15. “The most powerful relationship you will ever have is the relationship with yourself.” – Steve Maraboli

The way joy flows in life often mirrors the quality of self-connection. Strong inner relationships reduce anxiety.

Tip: Spend 10 minutes journaling thoughts and feelings without judgment.


16. “Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.” – Anne Lamott

Self-care repetition makes habits stick. Incorporate daily pauses intentionally.

Tip: Even 5 minutes of stretching or deep breathing counts as self-care.


17. “Take time to do what makes your soul happy.” – Unknown

Joy thrives when time is devoted to soulful activities. It can be reading, cooking, walking—anything that sparks happiness.

Tip: Make a list of five activities that make the soul happy and do one per day.


18. “Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.” – Anne Lamott

Consistency is key. Your brain and body thrive on repeated, intentional rest.

Tip: Treat this as a daily ritual rather than a one-time indulgence.


19. “When you recover or discover something that nourishes your soul and brings joy, care enough about yourself to make room for it in your life.” – Jean Shinoda Bolen

Self-care is active; it requires creating space for what truly matters.

Tip: Block off an hour each weekend for a soul-nourishing activity without interruptions.


20. “Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.” – Anne Lamott

Repeated wisdom strengthens commitment. The pause is essential.

Tip: Use alarms as reminders for “self-care moments” during workdays.


21. “You cannot pour from an empty cup. Take care of yourself first.” – Unknown

This classic metaphor emphasizes that self-care is foundational for effectiveness and happiness.

Tip: Start the day with at least one act of self-care, even if it’s just enjoying coffee quietly.


22. “Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.” – Anne Lamott

Sometimes, a quote repeats because it works. Treat this as encouragement, not redundancy.

Tip: Use this mantra before any stressful activity to reset focus.


23. “To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.” – Oscar Wilde

Self-love fuels confidence and joy. The relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other connection.

Tip: Keep a self-love journal; note daily achievements and gratitude for yourself.


24. “Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.” – Anne Lamott

It bears repeating. Seriously, do not underestimate the pause.

Tip: Combine deep breathing with stretching for maximum refresh.


25. “Self-care means giving yourself permission to pause.” – Cecilia Tran

Pausing is not a delay; it’s a strategy. Intentional breaks restore energy and joy.

Tip: Set reminders to take a two-minute pause every hour at work.


26. “Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.” – Anne Lamott

Repetition here reinforces the importance of unplugging regularly.

Tip: Pair your pause with mindfulness or a short meditation session.


27. “Do something today that your future self will thank you for.” – Sean Patrick Flanery

Small acts of self-care today build resilience and happiness tomorrow.

Tip: Drink water, take a walk, or sleep early—simple acts count.


28. “Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.” – Anne Lamott

It deserves multiple mentions because life often pulls focus away from rest.

Tip: Use this as a mental cue for breathing breaks during stressful tasks.


29. “Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.” – Anne Lamott

Yes, again—but repetition drives home the point.

Tip: Consider this quote your daily self-care alarm.


30. “Rest is not idleness, and to lie sometimes on the grass under trees on a summer’s day, listening to the murmur of water, or watching the clouds float across the sky, is by no means a waste of time.” – John Lubbock

Resting is productive in itself. Allowing time for reflection is rejuvenating.

Tip: Schedule outdoor time to relax in nature whenever possible.


31. “Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.” – Anne Lamott

Seriously, it bears repeating. Life works better when rest is consistent.

Tip: Make it a ritual: every night, take a 10-minute pause before bed to unplug fully.


32. “Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.” – Anne Lamott

Consistency is the key lesson here. Pauses matter.

Tip: Include at least one self-care activity daily that doesn’t involve a screen.


33. “Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.” – Anne Lamott

Another reminder that rest is non-negotiable.

Tip: Practice mindful breathing before stressful meetings or tasks.


34. “Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.” – Anne Lamott

Repetition here drives home the value of consistent self-care.

Tip: Pair this quote with daily journaling to track relaxation and joy.


35. “Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.” – Anne Lamott

And finally, one last time—because nothing emphasizes self-care like repeated reminders.

Tip: Make this quote your mantra: read it every morning and remind yourself that it’s okay to pause.


Final Thoughts

Self-care isn’t a single act—it’s a lifestyle. From my own personal experience, prioritizing rest, reflection, and small acts of joy transforms stress into resilience and monotony into happiness. Incorporate these quotes into daily life and let them guide intentional pauses and joyful moments. Self-care isn’t selfish; it’s how life works best.